42BR barristers understand that for separating couple working out how to deal with future arrangements for your children and finances is extremely stressful and challenging. Our role as experienced family mediators is to help clients reach workable solutions away from the inevitable delay, high cost, adversarial nature and stress of court proceedings.
We have extensive experience in dealing with the issues that arise when relationships break down. Having seen families undergo the trauma of slow and expensive court proceedings, we know that mediation helps clients focus on finding constructive solutions in a timely and cost-effective manner even in the most acrimonious cases.
We mediate all aspects of arrangements for your children for example living and educational issues as well as issues around national and international relocation and your financial arrangements including pensions, inheritance and trusts. We work with clients in this country and abroad, high profile clients and high net worth matters, both on a domestic and cross-border basis.
Mediation Information and Assessment Meetings
In the majority of circumstances before an application to the court is made, either in relation to arrangements for children or financial relief, separating couples are required to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting known as a MIAM. We offer Mediation and Assessment MIAMs conducted by an accredited family mediator.
MIAMs are confidential and conducted on an individual basis. The purpose of a MIAM is to enable the full range of alternative approaches for reaching agreement on post-separation issues in relation to your finances and your children to be explained and considered. Following a MIAM the mediator will be able to confirm whether the issues you want to resolve are amenable to mediation and will let you know about the different forms of mediation that are available. These include shuttle mediation which is available where circumstances mitigate against couples being in the same room.
What is Mediation?
Mediation is a cost-effective and successful alternative to court proceedings, operating in a professional, rigorous and confidential environment away from the adversarial nature of court. Mediation can help significantly in reducing the conflict too frequently associated with concluding the legal and practical issues involved in separation, even in the most complex and acrimonious circumstances.
Mediation is confidential. The mediator is a neutral third person who is trained and an expert in their area. The mediator helps you to identify the issues you want to resolve; explore possible options and then reach joint agreements. As mediators we are completely impartial, we will help you to communicate and ensure that the process is balanced and that neither person is at a disadvantage in the mediation. Mediators manage the process but the agenda is established and agreements reached by clients.
In general, legal representatives are welcome to attend mediations and clients have free access to consult their legal representatives at any time during the mediation. If communications are particularly strained or acrimonious, shuttle mediation where clients are in separate rooms is available
What can I expect from mediation at 42BR?
Chambers are able to facilitate MIAMs and mediations in the professional and support environment of our chambers in person or online. Mediation sessions are usually about two hours long. More than one session may be needed to resolve the issues to be resolved, dependent on their complexity. Generally, three or four sessions are required, particularly where there are complex financial matters such as those which involve an independent pension advisor or tax expert. Our mediation sessions are designed to accommodate our clients and some matters can be resolved in a morning or full day session.
If you are considering mediation or would like to know more about mediation or MIAMs we believe it is very important that you have an opportunity to speak directly to one of our mediators. As a first step, please contact our ADR clerk Tim Dockrill on 020 7831 0222.